I want The Truth.......

I've been in and out of relationships and I have let a man get up in my head cause I love him, Cause I will believe my man until he proves to me otherwise. But at the same time I am forth right with who I am and what I've been through! Why is it that in todays society it's ok for a man to lie and cheat whether he be single or married and this goes for them triflin females aswell, and people turn the other cheek and it's not really that big of a deal. Why all of the lies to try to keep someone it's apparent that you don't want to be with them, Why prolong the relationship, why prolong the drama in the situation. People know what they are going to do before they do it cause just about everything that people do is planned out, rarely are there people that act always on impulse!!!!!!! Text messeges, emails, chat rooms, these are things that people use to cheat and say they are pointless and mean nothing. but on the other hand when they are found they act like a deer in head lights lol..... I'm just saying these are things that are on my mind....... Is there any individuals that are out there that don't lie about little things or anything at all? If your out there plzzz let me know cause any day of the weak I'll take someone hurting my feelings telling me the truth than someone laughing with me and lying to my face.