Living within your means!!!!!!!!!

So I go outside and see so much poverty and wonder to myself how come some people just can't get it. If you are a female and get your hair and nails done but can barely keep gas in your car and want a man to pay for it, Why would you possibly think if you don't have yourself together why should a man contribute to your madness. Why would anyone think that it's ok to fix up their car grade A, but can barley pay they bills and don't have his own residence. And don't get me started on rented rims. Its rediculous in todays' society if you can't pay with cash then maybe it's not for yo a$$! Why do people wait til tax season to act like they ballin all up in these stores buying golds and clothes getting they swag up to no keep it up. Ex: A lady with 5 children lives next door to a friend of mine and one day driving to her house there were tv's outside on the ground with that being said I assumed that she got some flat screens. Also a ghetto bar-b-q took place INFRONT of the house(lol) She got into an altercation with her spouse and went over to my friends house to use the phone. Why in the hell you don't have no phone and yo ass got 5 kids, Once again I state rediculous, The response was I don't have no phone. Now this is what I do know a metro phone costs between 30 and 40 dollars a month, Boost mobile costs 50 dollars a month unlimited, But you got new flat screens makes no sense. People please live within your means or you will never get out of debt and you can only blame yourselves!!!!!!!!!